HELP! MY PRC WIFE IS CAUSING TREMENDOUS MENTAL DISTRESS TO ME AND MY FAMILY!

Dear editor,

I have known my PRC wife for 6 years plus before we ROM-ed last year. We are living in my parent's house till she gets her PR. But recently, she said she could not stand the way my family handle things and accuses us of bullying her.

Now my family is in tremendous stress as she will make a scene in dead of the night and wake the whole family up. She is not working at the moment but the rest of us are. She keeps repeating that she wants a divorce.

I have checked online but the law society website stated that we need to be married for 3 years before we can proceed with the divorce.

Also, due to her excellent timing to make a scene, I'm worried about my parent's health. If she makes a scene again, is there anything we can do? She says that we are psychologically abusing her, which I admit, that sometimes I used inappropriate words like siao or idiot.

Also, can her actions (making a scene) considered to be causing mental distress to my family?

Thanks in advance